The Alcohol Crave

It’s the war with the addiction. Different people have different views over addiction, Some think it is a failure of morality or spiritual weakness, a sin or crime by people who don’t take responsibility of their behavior or whether it’s their fault and let them self destruct. For others it’s a self control problem or a reason birthed by either poverty or ignorance.

If personality traits , temperament or character ,conditional response or rebel can be the root to addictive personalities??  Society sometimes get judgemental blaming that it happens due to breakdown of family values or adapted through genes. Different people , different theories. In my view, It is actually a disease, I wish it could be irreversible with the lifelong abstinence from the diseased life of the addicted.

Rightly suited the lines for alcohol love:

'U r burning me down and down , there is no one night stand , 

I wanna do it again and again........

I have some but I want it all and I refuse to slow down until it’s the last call.

U may crack , but let not break !!!!

For Women:

A single feminist or just equality thoughts have answers  to women struggles. U urself have to dare enough to degrade the women eaters whether thru media or social empowerment helping institutes. People around u would question u,  The society pin points on u giving all unreasonable logics for the bad happened to u and how ur boldness leads to ur present situation but ignoring their opinions all the way , u have to be strong enough to put across ur self respect.

They want to tear you down but show them up that you are not giving up ,  ,how much hard they break you , swallow your tears and stand up, survive , no matter what and how much unbearable.

Time would come that women feel that y they still need husbands, unless men would understand that the gold and pearls they want from their wives every now and then in the form of dowry and for which they torture and condition them to reciprocate to their love or support  , has no longer remained materialistic, the precious gold value for her head called intelligence and the pearls is in her mouth with which she can express and compassionate the family with.

Instead of depending on a man to bring happiness, the First thing she could do is become her own best friend and Then financially independent and the appropriate raised men would come and appreciate her and would be by her side forever.

For Men:

Y do a A girl needs to ask her husband to meet her own father after marriage , y her entitlement changes with the starting of her new life where she needs her parents the most???

R u your girl’s hero , her lover or her demise?

She needs you to become her strength when she gets weak in a situation , she needs that you put the trust in her whenever she is disappointed , she needs the care when she is hurt , she needs the encouragement when she gets weary and lost.. Its not very hard to be a hero in real life and bring happiness where you have the power to make a difference.